The trend of labeling women “crazy” is part of the culture that socializes women to go along to get along. When women are told over and over again that they’re not allowed to feel the way they feel and that they’re being “unreasonable” or “oversensitive”, they’re conditioned to not trust their own emotions. Their behavior – being assertive, even demanding or standing up for how they feel – becomes an “inconvenience” to men and they’re taught not to give offense and to consider the feelings of others before their own.

Anonymous asked:

for the record, I'm at book three, and i have no idea what happens to arya. I just figured that'd be the best person to make up a lie about. You haven't actually been spoiled =P

Thank you.  I AM sorry that I spoiled Who for you, that was NEVER my intention.  I am usually the last whovian to see, and everyone else I know avoids Tumblr until they watch it.  So, even though it WAS an accident, I AM sorry that my blog spoiled the premiere for you.